Showing posts with label Casual Chic. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Casual Chic. Show all posts

Friday, March 4, 2011

Are you a casual woman?

I've really pondered the name for this category.  It used to be "sporty" but too many women would say that they were not athletic or didn't play sports.  I thought about natural, but I know a lot of women in this category that do the hair and makeup and still dress more casual.  That's why I finally decided on Casual Woman.

This woman is absolutely full of life.  She is busy and active and involved.  She loves her family, friends and community.   She may not be playing on a soccer team or golf everyday but she is moving all the time.  But, by the same token, this is the woman that is most likely to play some type of sport or be involved in running, biking, swimming, etc.  If she has kids she plays with them.  If she doesn't, she probably has a dog that she walks and plays with.  She is the woman that you can call to do something at the drop of a hat.

This woman is an easy friend to have.  She caring, fun and easy to be around.  She has a tendency to over-commit because she likes to be involved.  She is great to have on a project or committee because she has excess energy to get things done.

The Casual woman doesn't worry a lot about what she wears.  She wants it to look good, but more importantly she wants it to move.  She wants to be comfortable and dressed to do whatever her day may hold.  Binding or stiff clothes will make her feel like she is in a straight jacket.  She would love to live in yoga clothes, jeans and a tee shirt or sweats.  If she has to dress up it will be pretty simple and still have some comfortability.

This woman isn't a big shopper.  She goes and gets just what she needs.  She has a tendency to wear her clothes to death if they feel good.  This woman usually has a laid-back, easy style that comes off as casually cool.  Jennifer Aniston is a great example of a Casual Woman's style.

Here are the things that every Casual Woman should have in her closet:

  • Great fitting jeans...multiple pairs
  • Comfortable military style or denim jacket
  • Graphic Tees
  • Stylish sweats
  • Knit dress that can be worn with flats or dressed up with jewelry and heels
The Casual Woman will have some jewelry, but it is generally meaningful.  A friend will have made the pieces, the proceeds went to a good cause or they are representative of something this woman believes in.  She isn't a big accessorizer  but she sometimes likes to put on a piece or two of meaningful jewelry.  This woman doesn't accessorize in many other ways.

She is not a purse woman.  She is more likely to be carrying a big tote, a backpack or a very small bag she can throw across her body or over her shoulder.  She will not change bags to match her outfit, but will change bags to meet the needs of her day.  Her bags are utilitarian not fashion.

This woman will generally be in flats of some sort.  She may have a selection of tennis shoes...both functional and stylish.  She will prefer to wear flats with pants to the office.  She just needs to be able to move quickly and heels hinder that.  Flip flops are definitely her summer choice.

The Casual Woman is usually not my client.  They know what they like.  There is a chic coolness about them that comes naturally.  And, they are generally pretty confident in their appearance. 

Friday, February 18, 2011

Yesterday I posted ideas for this in between type season.  And, I know that a lot of people are dealing with this because Facebook had tons of posts from around the country about how nice the weather was.  If it is 50-60 degrees during the day then you can bet it is cooler in the morning.  So, as cute and thin as those models are, they don't represent the average woman.

We hear it all the time...a size 12 is the average size for the American woman.  REALLY!!!!  As a boutique owner I would go to market all the time.  Many designers only go up to a size 10.  Personally I am offended by that.  If I can stay a size 10 fabulous...but I often creep up to a 12 or 14.  So where are the models that look like the rest of us?  Well you're not going to see them.

Even in magazines that are dedicated to the "real" woman, we see the not-so-average 6's and 8's.  Even Oprah has a few pounds carved off of her voluptuous figure for the cover of her magazine.  No wonder we all have image issues.

I was talking to a girlfriend the other day, who is one of the most elite image consultants in the country, about this very issue.  How images in the media make women feel inadequate.  This isn't a new topic.  We have heard about this issue for years.  The only thing we can do is turn off the tv, put down the magazines and "own" who we are.  That's right....if you are short like me, a little heavy like me or anything else; it is okay!!  It is okay because we are loving, intelligent, funny, nurturing, talented women!!  We don't have to look a certain way to have value.  Our society just tells us we do.

So the first thing to looking your best is OWN IT!  Then find things that fit your body well.  These particular tips are for the shorties like me who want to look great and feel great.

 First and foremost...think balance.  People always want to put me in straight leg jeans because I'm short and they think volume is going to make me look too big.  Ha!  Straight legs make me look like an ice cream cone. A little junk in your trunk?  Opt for at least a boot but, maybe even more!

                                            
 These are my all time favorite jeans and they are Lee!  Great waistband that doesn't roll down, a good amount of stretch and short or medium lengths.


Then I have the issue of the big boobies (which my husband reminds me is never an issue).  The best thing for us is stretch, stretch, stretch.  Used to be stretchy materials were just for gym clothes.  But now you can get great ponte knits, matte jerseys and even stretch silks.


I love this jacket for just throwing on over a cute shirt with jeans.  I also love that you obviously need more to fill it out than what the model has going on!!  This jacket is classic, stretchy and incredibly priced!


Opt for a cute top made out of a stretchy knit.  The thing with tops is remember to get movement without adding volume.  The cut of this top is perfect because it is fitted at the bodice and has a little more movement around the hem.  And, don't worry if you are well-endowed you can still wear ruffles as long as they are small and soft (the ruffles....not the boobies)


I've never been a shorts girl.  Which makes me love the trend of dresses.  Take a plain, knit dress and pump up the volume with cute jewelry and ballet flats or flip flops.  

No matter what you put on, remember to strut your stuff like you were on a New York runway!!
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Thursday, February 17, 2011

The In Between

These months where it is 35 degrees one day and 70 the next are the most challenging of all times.  So here are three quick hints for keeping up with the weather demands.

1.  Keep yourself warm weather ready.
     
You may have gone for weeks without shaving your legs in the winter.  Your underarms might not have been silky smooth every day.  And, your legs may have been wearing the seasons stylish crocodile look.  But, the weather is getting warmer and you need to get your body back into bare shape.

Get yourself a really good body scrub and use it is the shower every day.  Either put lotion on your skin at night or slather on the body oil.  If you use something like Jojoba oil it will dissolve into your skin instantly.  It is the closest to our natural body oil that you can get.

If you are tired of shaving those legs and underarms, consider investing in an at home laser hair remover.  Do it now because you can't use it as you start to spend more time in the sun.  I've been using the Tria all winter and can really see the difference!!

2.  Layer, layer, layer
     
I just can't emphasize this one enough.  Start with a cute, sleeveless top.  Put on a lightweight sweater and top it off with a trench or other cute jacket.  Finally, tie a light weight scarf to your bag.    

You will be ready for anything from sitting outside where the breeze makes it a little nippy to going into an overheated restaurant.

Cute options for the season:
                          

3.  Break out your flip flops
     
It might still be a little chilly but I'm sure your feet are dying to be out in the air after being cooped up all winter.  Throw a little pair of flip flops on and carry the oh so popular, travel flats with you.  If  your toes get a little frost bite, switch out your flip flops for your stylish flats.  You are good to go no matter what the temp.  Just make sure your feet have had their spring treatment to remove all the dead skin from winter!


Don't get caught in temperature inappropriate clothing during the in-between season!!  


  

Monday, February 14, 2011

Casual Chic and Easy

Are you going out tonight or just want to look a little special at the dinner table?  Most women know how to put on a dress and heels and look smashing.  The real question is usually, "How do I stay comfortable and casual with a WOW factor?"  Clients have been asking me that question for years.

Of course, venue is a piece of the equation.  But, if you are going to a restaurant and want to focus on the person across the table from you and not worry about how you look or fidget with your outfit, then read on!  First, what makes you the most comfortable?  Jeans?  Yoga Pants?  Dresses?  Go with what you feel your best in.

I am a jeans or yoga pant girl.  So, when I want to dress up and add a little punch to my usual casual outfit, I focus on the top.  I will add sheer, sparkles and probably show a little decolletage.  When I'm out I'll never think about my clothes.  All of my attention will be on that sweet man that I married!!


Add a sheer blouse to your nicest yoga pants.  Make sure that your undergarments are the same color as the sheer blouse.


Pump up the volume with a simple, sequin tank under a casual jacket.  The light reflecting from the sequins will make you sparkle all over!

Happy Valentine's Day!!